It has been another busy and
wonderful year of change for the Burnhams!
Joe got into
McMaster University (Degroot School of
Business in Burlington, Ontario) to further his education and get his
Masters in Business. It has been a
bitter-sweet year as we are feeling fortunate to be in this position going back
to school, but it has definitely been difficult to leave family and friends (not to mention an income!) for this
short time. We are grateful for the
support we have had in our efforts to better our future. Joe has been called as the Elder’s Quorum
teacher as well as the Activity Days for boys (they don’t do Scouting out here for some reason). He is such a great teacher so I know that
those kinds of callings will really suit him.
I have been especially proud of Joe as I have watched him work so hard
not only in church and school, but also as a husband and Dad. Even after long days of studying where I know
he must be exhausted, he manages to squeeze in some quality time with us. Sundays, being the “day of rest”, have never
meant more to us than they do now. It’s
a relief to both of us that he can put his studies aside for one day out of the
week and have it be all about family and the Lord.
Zoe Amelia
came into our lives two weeks after moving across the country (good timing!). She has been such a blessing in our
lives. She is so happy and talks/coos
all the time. And at three months she is
already sleeping a beautiful and blessed 12 hours through the night (which makes Mommy happy too!). Her latest fascination is discovering her
hands.
Ellie (2.5 years old) is
thankfully a-okay with being a big sister.
No jealousy or aggression towards Zoe, per se, but she has been known to
occasionally throw her baby doll down the stairs and say, “Oh no! Baby fall down!” So if she DOES have any jealous feelings at
least it’s the doll that’s getting it and not Zoe! With these major changes Ellie’s personality
has become stronger and has multiplied!
I do not blame her with the move, a new baby and the boys now at school
during the day. As I have made an effort
to “love” Ellie a little more and give her the attention she needs, she has
begun to mellow-out a bit and her sweetness is gradually returning to us. She still has a talent for pushing my buttons
though (I think she just wants to make
the boys laugh); At dinner time she will not stay put on her chair. She will even put herself in time-out if she
doesn’t feel like eating dinner with the rest of us (so there goes that plan!). “Ellie, sit in your chair please.” “Dis one?” as she points to another
chair. “No Ellie, this chair.” “Dis one?” as she points to another
chair. “No Ellie, YOUR chair. Sit here.”
“Dis one?” And that goes on for a
while until I plop her in her seat. “Sit
on your bum Ellie.” “Like dis?” as she
kneels on her chair. “No. On your bum Ellie.” “Like dis?”
as she slides onto her tummy….
Sigh. That girl. I will say one of the most precious things
about her is her love of singing. If Zoe
cries, she KNOWS that singing a rousing rendition of ABC’s in her loudest and
clearest voice is the answer to that problem.
Noah (4 years old) has had some big changes
this year too. In Ontario they have
something called Junior Kindergarten in the Public schools for Noah’s age. I personally wasn’t really prepared to put
him in school this quickly especially not all-day/every-day, and I almost
didn’t (He just barely learned to wipe
his own bum this Summer… thank goodness). But the long and the short of it is he LOVES
it. He used to never want to sit down at
home to do a craft or draw, but now I am getting piles of papers sent home in
his backpack with stick men on them and various letters (that I am sure are meant to spell something), where before school
started all Noah could manage to spell was his own first name. I love seeing him progress. And he LOVES when I read to him. He actually wants to sound words out (coming
from a kid who is so physically active it’s been hard getting him to sit and
focus at all!). “Noah what sound
does a ‘T’ make?” “Wah” “Hmmm….
Close.” He’s getting there! He is also an amazing big brother. He and Zoe are the best of friends! He gets home from school and goes straight to
her, “Hi Zoe!” I often catch him telling
her stories or singing to her randomly.
And if she cries even the slightest he is right by her side, “Don’t cry
Zoe.
Zoedon’tcrydon’tcrydon’tcrydon’tcryZoedon’tcry…” over and over again
just in case she didn’t hear him the first hundred times. I love their relationship, and I especially
love seeing Noah’s soft and tender side.
Jackson (5.5 years old) started Kindergarten
this year (or as they call it here,
Senior Kindergarten). He and Noah
actually get to share the same class/teachers which makes me feel a little more
at ease knowing that they have each other when I’m not there. I knew without a doubt that he would LOVE it,
and of course, he does. He comes home
with craft after craft (there is not
enough room on my fridge to receive the amounts of daily crafts/drawings/paintings
that come home with these boys!).
His true passion is writing and spelling. He constantly has a pen or marker in his hand
and any scrap piece of paper he can find.
And where most boys would be playing games on their Dad’s iPad, he is
spelling out words in the “Notes”
section! Even after being at school all
day he will come home, find a pen and paper and get to work. He is also really talented with reading and
can read at a grade one level so far (Not
surprised, but definitely proud).
His latest thing is randomly telling us that he can spell “such-and-such”
word and then go on to spell it. He also
loves swimming. I put the boys into
swim-lessons last month and they both love it!
Noah is dunking his head under the water 80% of the time (his poor instructor) and Jackson can
float and is getting closer to actually swimming without floaties. Yeay!
Looking forward to a lot less stressful pool-days this Summer as Ellie
will also start lessons in January when she turns three.
I, (Maren), have fallen in love with Burlington. I didn’t love Burlington when I was nine
months pregnant in the dead of August with no furniture in our newly-moved-into
spider-infested rental, but I am loving it more and more every day. Although I do miss my friends and family in
Alberta, I am happy to announce that I am making some really great friends here
and gradually feeling like I belong more and more. We even had our first book club, so that is
most certainly a start. Weeks after I
had Zoe, they called me to not one, but TWO callings in our Ward here; The
Sunday School teacher for the 16-17 year olds (LOVE that calling and my youth) and to be apart of the Ward Music
Committee (which is me and the
chairperson. Ha! So I AM the committee). They have kept me busy in the ward with
Musical firesides, speaking at Stake Conference and figuring out a Ward choir,
but it has been really good for me to be busy.
We hope this Christmas letter
find you healthy and well! Enjoy those
Christmas holidays (but not too much
without us!).
Love,
The Burnhams











